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What Is Family Violence

What is family violence?

Family violence refers to violence committed by spouses (legally married, separated, divorced and common-law partners), parents (biological, adopted, step, foster), children (biological, adopted, step, foster), siblings (biological, adopted, step, half, foster), and extended family members.

What is Intimate Partner Violence? 

Intimate partner violence (IPV) is domestic violence by a current or former spouse or partner in an intimate relationship against the other spouse or partner.  IPV can take a number of forms, including physical, verbal, emotional, economic, spiritual or cultural, Isolation and/or abandonment, entitlement, sexual abuse and using children.

How common is family violence?

  • One in ten women is abused each year in Canada by her spouse, partner or boyfriend
  • Of all reported violent crime in 2016, more than 26% resulted from family violence.  
  • 67 % of victims of family violence reported to police in 2015 were young girls or women 
  • In 2015, the rate of police-reported family violence against females was double that of males (325 per 100,000 versus 160)
  • Women aged 30 to 34 recorded the highest rates of family violence.

Who is most at risk of being abused?

  • Young women
  • Aboriginal women
  • Women isolated in the home – perhaps living on a farm or rural community
  • Women in common-law relationships
  • Recently separated
  • Persons with a disability
  • Elderly persons

WHERE DO YOU GO FOR HELP?

Family and Friends, Family and Community Support Services (FCSS), Victims Services, RCMP, Riseup Society Alberta, Women’s Shelters, Alberta Mental Health.        In an EMERGENCY call 911.

 

Red Flags For Abusive Relationships

The following is a list of warning signs for potentially abusive relationships. They are presented as guidelines and cues to pay attention to, not as judgments on the worth of the other person.

Question relationships with partners who:

  • Abuse alcohol or other drugs.
  • Have a history of trouble with the law, get into fights, or break and destroy property.
  • Don’t work or go to school.
  • Blame you for how they treat you, or for anything bad that happens.
  • Abuse siblings, other family members, children or pets.
  • Put down people, including your family and friends, or call them names.
  • Are always angry at someone or something.
  • Try to isolate you and control whom you see or where you go.
  • Nag you or force you to be sexual when you don’t want to be.
  • Cheat on you or have lots of partners.
  • Are physically rough with you (push, shove, pull, yank, squeeze, restrain).
  • Take your money or take advantage of you in other ways.
  • Accuse you of flirting or “coming on” to others or accuse you of cheating on them.
  • Don’t listen to you or show interest in your opinions or feelings, things always have to be done their way.
  • Ignore you, give you the silent treatment, or hang up on you.
  • Lie to you, don’t show up for dates, maybe even disappear for days.
  • Make vulgar comments about others in your presence
  • Blame all arguments and problems on you.
  • Tell you how to dress or act.
  • Threaten to kill themselves if you break up with them or tell you that they cannot live without you.
  • Experience extreme mood swings tell you you’re the greatest one minute and rip you apart the next minute.
  • Tell you to shut up or tell you you’re dumb, stupid, fat, or call you some other name (directly or indirectly).
  • Compare you to former partners.

Some other cues that might indicate an abusive relationship might include:

  • You feel afraid to break up with them.
  • You feel tied down, feel like you have to check-in.
  • You feel afraid to make decisions or bring up certain subjects so that the other person won’t get mad.
  • You tell yourself that if you just try harder and love your partner enough that everything will be just fine.
  • You find yourself crying a lot, being depressed or unhappy.
  • You find yourself worrying and obsessing about how to please your partner and keep them happy.
  • You find the physical or emotional abuse getting worse over time.

Adapted from the Domestic Abuse Project (
http://www.domesticabuseproject.org)

Helping A Friend Who Is Being Abused

Many are emotionally, physically, or sexually abused by their intimate partners each year. If you are concerned about a friend, perhaps you feel the problem will work itself out. This is very unlikely. Violence and abuse in relationships usually continues and often gets worse over time if no action is taken to stop it. You can help your friend by being honest about your concerns. Say something.

Things that might be keeping you from saying something:

  • The violence can’t really be that serious.
    Dating violence includes threats, pushing, punching, slapping, choking, sexual assault, and assault with weapons. It is rarely a one-time occurrence and usually escalates in frequency and severity. Even if the violence is “only” verbal, it can seriously affect the victim’s health and well-being, so any act of dating violence is something to take seriously.
  • My friend must be doing something to provoke the violence.
    A victim of dating violence is never to blame for another person’s choice to use violence against her/him. Problems exist in any relationship, but the use of violence is never acceptable.
  • If it’s so bad, why doesn’t s/he just leave?
    For most of us, a decision to end a relationship is not easy. Your friend’s emotional ties to her/his partner may be strong, supporting the hope that the violence will end. Perhaps your friend doesn’t know about available resources, or maybe social and justice systems may have been unhelpful in the past. Perhaps when your friend has tried to end the relationship in the past, her/his partner may have used violence to stop her/him. These are just some of the many compelling reasons that may keep someone in an abusive relationship.
  • I shouldn’t get involved in a private matter.
    Dating violence is not a “personal problem”. It is a crime with serious repercussions for your friend, your friend’s partner, your campus, and your entire community.
  • I know the abusive person– I really don’t think he/she could hurt anyone.
    Many abusers are not violent in other relationships and can be charming in social situations, yet be extremely violent in private.
  • The abusive person must be sick.
    Using violence and abuse is a learned behavior, not a mental illness. People who use violence and abuse to control their partners choose such behavior; viewing them as “sick” wrongly excuses them from taking responsibility for it.
  • I think the abusive person has a drinking problem. Could that be the cause of violence?
    Alcohol or drug use may intensify violent behavior, but it does not cause violence or abuse. People who engage in abusive behavior typically make excuses for their violence, claiming a loss of control due to alcohol/drug use or extreme stress. Acting abusively, however, does not represent a loss of control, but a way of achieving it.
  • How can my friend still care for someone who abuses her/him?
    Chances are, the abuser is not always abusive. S/he may show remorse for the violence after it happens and promise to change. Your friend may understandably hope for such changes. Their relationship probably involves good times, bad times, and in-between times.
  • If my friend wanted my help, s/he would ask for it. Your friend may not feel comfortable confiding in you, feeling you may not understand her/his situation. Talk to her/him about the abusive behaviors you have noticed, tell your friend no one deserves to be treated in that way, and ask her/him how you can help.

What You Can Do to Help:

  • Say something. Lend a listening ear. Tell your friend that you care and are willing to listen. Don’t force the issue, but allow your friend to confide in you at her/his own pace. Never blame your friend for what is happening or underestimate her/his fear of potential danger. Focus on supporting your friend’s right to make her/his own decisions.
  • Become informed. Find out all the facts you can about dating violence. Contact offices  that address sexual and dating violence, or contact the local program(s) in your area that assist victims of domestic violence. Look for books about dating violence in your local library. 
  • Guide your friend to community services. Gather information about dating/domestic violence programs in your area. These programs offer safety, advocacy, support, legal information, and other needed services. If your friend asks for advice on what they should do, share the information you’ve gathered. Let your friend know they are not alone, and people are available to help. Encourage them to seek the assistance of dating/domestic violence victim advocates. Assure them that the information will be kept confidential.
  • If your friend decides to end the relationship… Help them make a plan to be safe. They may want to call a local domestic violence hotline to help create a “safety plan”. Domestic violence programs can help them look at their options and make a plan to be as safe as possible. Victims of dating violence may face the greater risk when they try to end the abusive relationship. If the abusive person feels they have lost control, they may become very dangerous.
  • Focus on her/his strengths. Your friend has probably continually been told by the abusive person that they are a bad person, a bad student, or a bad friend. Your friend may believe they can’t do anything right and that there really is something wrong with them. Give them emotional support. Help them examine their strengths and skills. Emphasize that they deserve a life that is free from violence.

This document has been adapted several times by several organizations and originated with “Helping The Battered Woman, A Guide For Family And Friends,” a 1989 publication of the National Woman Abuse Prevention Project.

 

Examining Your Relationship

What are your rights in a relationship?

  • To express your opinions and have them be respected
  • To have your needs be as important as your partner’s needs
  • To grow as an individual in your own way
  • To change your mind
  • To not take responsibility for your partner’s behavior
  • To not be physically, emotionally, verbally or sexually abused
  • To break up with or fall out of love with someone and not be threatened

Are you being abused?

  • Are you frightened by your partner’s temper?
  • Are you afraid to disagree?
  • Are you constantly apologizing for your partner’s behavior, especially when he or she has treated you badly?
  • Do you have to justify everything you do, everywhere you go, and everyone you see just to avoid your partner’s anger?
  • Does your partner put you down, but then tell you that he or she loves you?
  • Have you ever been hit, kicked, shoved or had things thrown at you?
  • Do you not see friends or family because of your partner’s jealousy?
  • Have you ever been forced to have sex?
  • Are you afraid to break up because your partner has threatened to hurt you or himself or herself?
  • Has your partner ever threatened your life or the life of someone close to you?

Are you being abusive?

  • Do you constantly check up on your partner and accuse her or him of cheating or lying?
  • Are you extremely jealous or possessive?
  • Do you have an explosive temper?
  • Have you hit, kicked, shoved, or thrown things at your partner?
  • Do you constantly criticize or insult your partner?
  • Do you become violent when you use drugs or alcohol?
  • Do you use threats or intimidation to get your way?
  • Have you ever forced your partner to have sex with you through threats?
  • Have you ever threatened your partner with physical harm?
  • Have you threatened to hurt yourself or someone else if your partner breaks up with you?

If you feel that you are in an abusive relationship, you are not alone.

There is help available for you or someone you know who suffers in an abusive relationship.

The Red Flag Campaign is a project of the Virginia Sexual and Domestic Violence Action Alliance
and was created thanks to the generous support of the
Verizon Foundation.

Relationship Quiz

RELATIONSHIP QUIZ

1. We work as a team to solve life’s challenges

  __not at all __sometimes         __often

2. We are in agreement about finances

__not at all __sometimes         __often

3. Our vision for the future is similar

__not at all __sometimes         __often

4. We agree about most aspects of raising the children

__not at all __sometimes         __often

5. We agree about how to discipline the children

__not at all __sometimes         __often

6. We enjoy doing leisure activities together

__not at all __sometimes         __often

7. We support each other’s interests

__not at all __sometimes         __often

8. I feel good about myself in our relationship

__not at all __sometimes         __often

9. We laugh together

__not at all __sometimes         __often

10. I feel loved within our relationship

__not at all __sometimes         __often

11. I am happy with our sexual relationship

__not at all __sometimes         __often

12. I am confident about my partner’s fidelity

__not at all __sometimes         __often (all the time)

13. We communicate freely with each other

__not at all __sometimes         __often

14. I am happy with the way responsibilities are shared

__not at all __sometimes         __often

15. We meet each other’s intellectual and emotional needs

__not at all __sometimes         __often

16. We respect each other’s religious or spiritual beliefs

__not at all __sometimes         __often

17. The “give and take” within our relationship is consistently equal

__not at all __sometimes         __often

18. We grow and learn together

__not at all __sometimes         __often

Financial Support

As a Registered Charity (#81655 5353 RR0001), Riseup Society Alberta relies on the generous contributions of committed supporters to meet ongoing needs. Gifts come from individuals, groups, businesses and churches.  Each contribution is greatly appreciated.

Making a one-time gift

You can donate directly by mailing a cheque to Riseup Society Alberta  
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Volunteer Support

We are grateful to the many people who contribute their gifts, talents, resources and time to make this work possible. Riseup currently has a volunteer committee who have contributed in excess of 500 hours in 2019.  If you are interested in volunteering please contact Riseup Society at 780-739-7473 or executive@riseupsociety.ca , 780-769-0268. 

Areas of Interest for Volunteers

  • Distribution of promotional material at community events
  • Fundraising
  • Attending events and selling 50/50 tickets
  • Event planning
  • Raising awareness in the community
  • Attending meetings
Recommended Books for MEN

Top Picks by Riseup Society Staff

Abused Men: The hidden side of Domestic Violence
by Philip W. Cook
“Cook writes in an interesting and inviting manner, the engaging style of a journalist providing an in-depth discussion of a topic that he acknowledges is controversial, emotionally laden, and in conflict with many beliefs about abuse and violence in America.” – Journal of Marriage and the Family

The Mask of Masculinity
by Lewis Howes
How men can embrace vulnerability, create strong relationships, and live their fullest lives

You don’t Have to be a Wimp to be Abused
by Beverly Wallin
An Easy Guide to Understanding Domestic Violence Against Men. Very few books have been written about male victims, let alone male victims of violence by women partners. Men can be abused emotionally, financially or physically. This book uses the story of a fictional character “Fred” to educate anyone of the many types of domestic abuse that men can be exposed to and how to prevent them.

Violent Partners: A Breakthrough Plan for Ending the Cycle of Abuse
by Linda G. Mills, J.D., Ph.D.
Linda Mills challenges the4 orthodoxies surrounding intimate abuse. Although we’re led to believe that men are almost always the perpetrators and women the victims, Mills uncovers a far more complex story in which both partners often participate in a dynamic of violence.

Recommended Books Children, Parents, Teachers and Health Professionals
FAMILY VIOLENCE BOOK RESOURCES FOR CHILDREN, PARENTS, TEACHERS, AND HEALTH PROFESSIONALS

1. Angryman. Gro Dahle, illustrated by Svein Nyhus, (2019). $23.95 (ages 6+)
This book gives readers a sensitive glimpse into the mind and heart of a young boy as he struggles to understand, relate to and express love towards his angry, out of control father. Supported by powerfully descriptive illustrations, the story describes the terror, pain and longing felt by children who live in domestic violence situations.

2. Healing the Bruises. Lori Morgan, (1983, 2014) $16.95 (ages 7-10)
A story of a girl who must leave her family home and flee to a shelter because her father is physically violent to her mother. It is a journey of a girl as she grieves her losses and grows to feel safe in her new home, school and with her new friends.

3. How Are You Feeling Today Baby Bear? Exploring Big Feelings after Living in a Stormy Home. Jane Evans, $22.95 (ages 2-6)

4. In Love and In Danger: A Teen’s Guide to Breaking Free of Abusive Relationships. Barrie Levy, $17.00 (ages 14+)

5. Something Is Wrong at My House: A Book about Parents’ Fighting. Diane Davis $11.95 (ages 6-9).
Based on a true story, this book introduces a child seeking and obtaining help in a domestic violence situation. The book is ideal for use by school healthcare professionals, counsellors, social workers, teachers, and staff in shelters.

6. A Terrible Thing Happened. Margaret Holmes, (1993) $14.50 (ages 4-8)
This story is for children who have witnessed any kind of violent or traumatic episode, including personal family violence, school bullying, accidents, or homicide. An afterward by Sash a J. Mudlaff, written for parents and other caregivers offers extensive suggestions for helping traumatized children.

7. A Volcano in My Tummy: Helping Children to Handle Anger. Elaine Whitehouse & Warwick Pudney, $14.95 (ages 6-12)

8. Mommy’s Black Eye. William George Bentrim, 20212, (younger children).
This book attempts to explain an extremely complicated issue of family violence young children and help them understand what is going on in their lives. Particular point is made that the children are not responsible for the bad behaviour of their parents, which they are too often susceptible of accepting.

9. A Family that Fights. Sharon Chesler Bernstein, 1991 (age: early elementary)
It is a story of three children Henry, Clair, and Joe whose parents fight a lot. The story explains the difference between family disagreement and family violence and its emotional toll on children.

10. The Day my Dad Lost his Temper. Carol Santana Mc Cleary, Self-Published 2014 (age8-10)
Part of “The Empowering Kids Series”, the book is a collection of empathically reflective stories, told from the perspective of young children. This book is meant to be used by parents and mental health professionals to facilitate a child’s ability to talk about their feelings and experiences. It is aimed at validating the child’s feelings of guilt, shame, and isolation.

11. Children Who See Too Much: Lessons from the Child Witness-to-Violence Project. Betsy McAlister Groves. $24.00
This book explains how children understand, respond to, and are affected by domestic violence.

12.Hearing Young People Talk About Witnessing Domestic Violence. Susan Collins, (2013) $34.95
Book explores the case of 5 young people who have been victims of domestic violence and speak about it in their own voices. This book is a vital resource for mental health professionals, social workers, school counsellors and professionals working in the field of domestic violence.

Recommended Books

Top Picks by Riseup Society Staff

When Love Hurts: A Women’s Guide to Understanding Abuse in Relationships by Jill Cory and Karen McAndless-Davis

This book can be a useful companion to help women who are struggling in relationships made worse by the  isolation brought about by the Covid-19 directives.  It is essential reading for any woman wondering if she is being abused. It helps women recognize the signs of abuse in a relationship and the abusive strategies their partner uses to control and disempower them. Along with true stories of women experiencing abuse, the book offers exercises that allow readers to examine their own situation. It explores difficult questions and offers straightforward advice.

Copies of the book “When Love Hurts” are available to purchase at Riseup for $20.00

The books underlined can be borrowed from Riseup Society Alberta.

SELF IMPROVEMENT & EMPOWERMENT

Healing the Trauma of domestic Violence-A workbook for Women (2004).
By Kubany, Edward S. PhD., Mari A. McCraig, MSCP, Janet R. Lacousay, MA
A new harbinger self-help workbook. Step by step exercises for recovering from the abuse you’ve endured and taking back your life. A complete program of exercises you can do to:
a) Recognize the effects of trauma on your life
b) Let go of anger, stress, shame and guilt
c) change core beliefs that can lead to involvement in abusive relationships
d) confront and overcome your fears
e) Dispel feelings of helplessness
f) Avoid future involvement with potential abusers

Boundaries Where You End and I Begin: How to Recognize and Set Healthy Boundaries (1994).
By Katherine, Anne, MA
This book is a landmark introduction to the importance of boundaries. The author demonstrates how they protect our wellbeing and define us as unique and individual. They are essential if we are to have healthy relationships and true intimacy. Yet everyday peoples’ boundaries are violated by family, friends and co-workers. Anne Katherine not only explains what healthy boundaries are but also how to recognize if your personal boundaries are being violated and most importantly, what you can do to protect yourself.

The Emotionally Abused Woman: Overcoming Destructive Patterns and Reclaiming Yourself, (1990)
By Engel, Beverly.
Does your partner constantly criticize you and put his needs before yours?
Do you sometimes wonder if your best friend is truly a friend?
Does your fear of being left alone keep you in chronically hurtful relationships?
If any of those questions apply to you, you could be suffering from emotional abuse. This type of abuse is as damaging as physical and sexual abuse. The author guides you through a step-by-step recovery process helping you shed habits that possibly began in childhood and take the first steps towards healthy change.

The Gifts of Imperfection: Let go of who you Think You’re Supposed to Be and Embrace Who You Are. Your guide to a Wholehearted Life (2010).
By Brown, Brene
A motivational and inspiring guide to wholehearted living, Brene Brown bolsters the self-esteem and personal development process through a very heartfelt, honest storytelling. With original research and plenty of definitions of an imperfect life and embracing living authentically. Brown’s “ten guideposts” are benchmarks for authenticity that can help anyone establish a practice for a life of honest beauty – a perfectly imperfect life.
This book has sold more than 2 million copies in more than 30 different languages.

Invisible Heroes: Survivors of Trauma and How They Heal. (2004) A new path of healing from Post-Traumatic-Stress Disorder (PTSD).
By Naparstek, Belleruth
Post Traumatic Stress creates a suffering that is very intense and persistent, and because of the odd way traumatic memories are stored in the brain, traditional talk therapies are often not very effective.
Thanks to dramatic discoveries in fields as wide ranging as biochemistry, neurology and psycho-therapy there is new help for healing from PTSD. This book offers a road map to recovery based on the potent tool of guided imagery. Belleruth Naparstek clearly outlines three stages of healing and provides more than 20 complete guided imagery scrips tailored to each stage. Best used hand -in-hand with an experienced guided imagery practitioner.

Soul-Centered: Transform Your Life in 8 weeks with Meditation. (2012)
By McLean, Sarah
Soul-Centered presents a contemporary, mainstream view of meditation in an 8 week program that introduces time-tested techniques to cultivate an effective daily meditation practice. The book begins with insights into the five essentials necessary for successful meditation. Each of the 8 weeks that follows explores a variety of meditation practices thoroughly supported by research, insights, stories and exercises. The themes of each week reflect a benefit derived from meditation: Awareness, Peace, Freedom, Compassion, Intimacy, Receptivity and Nourishment.
It is an easy to follow program that inspires you to confidently practice meditation and become more self-aware, more peaceful and more compassionate with yourself and with others.

Living a Life that Matters (2001)
By Kushner, Harold
It is a book of spiritual advice where author highlights how even our smallest actions can become daily stepping stones towards integrity.
Drawing on stories from personal experience, friends, literature and the Bible, Kushner addresses some of the most persistent dilemmas of the human condition. Why do decent people violate their moral standards? How can we pursue justice without giving in to the lure of revenge? How can we turn our relationships with family and friends into genuine sources of meaning?
Living a life that Matters is a deeply rewarding book.

Broken Open: How Difficult Times can Help us Grow (2003).
By Lesser, Elizabeth
This book is a blend of moving stories, humorous insights, practical guidance and personal memoir. The author offers tools to make a choice possible whether we allow adversity to break us down or break us open to heal and become transformed. Lesser shares tales of ordinary people who have risen from their trauma of illness or loss and emerged stronger, wiser and more in touch with their purpose and passion in life. She draws on the world’s great spiritual and psychological traditions to support the readers as they too learn to break open and blossom into what they were meant to be.

Daring Greatly: Have the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent and Lead (2012).
By Brown, Brene
Every time we are faced with change, no matter how great or small, we also face risk. We feel uncertain and exposed. We feel vulnerable. Most of us try to fight those feelings or feel guilt for feeling them in the first place.
In a powerful new vision, Brene Brown challenges everything we think we know about vulnerability and dispels the widely accepted myth that it is a weakness. She argues that, in truth vulnerability is strength and when we shut off ourselves from it, from revealing our true selves we distance ourselves from the experiences that bring purpose and meaning in our lives.
This book is an invitation to be courageous, to show up and be seen, even when there are no guarantees.

Rising Strong: If We are Brave Enough, Often Enough, we Will Fall. This is a Book About Getting Back Up (2015).
By Brown, Brene
This is a book about what it takes to get back up and how owning your stories of disappointment, failure and heartbreak gives us the power to write a daring new ending. Struggle can be our greatest call to courage and Rising Strong, our clearest path to deeper meaning, wisdom and hope.

Self-Compassion: The Proven Power of Being Kind to Yourself. Stop Beating Yourself up and Leave Insecurity Behind (2011).
By Neff, Kristin
Kristin Neff, PhD., says that it is time to stop beating yourself up and leave insecurity behind. This book offers expert advice on how to limit self-criticism and offset its negative effects, enabling you to achieve your highest potential and more contented, fulfilled life.
More and more psychologists are turning away from an emphasis on self-esteem and moving toward self-compassion in the treatment of their patients. Dr. Neff’s book offers exercises and action plans for dealing with every emotionally debilitating struggle, be it parenting, or any of the numerous trials of everyday living.

Recommended Websites

Family Violence Information Line in Alberta 780-310-1818 

Service offers:

  • a 24 Hour, toll free helpline in Alberta for anyone experiencing family violence or abuse, or who knows someone that has questions about family violence

Support includes:

  • referrals to family violence programs, resources, and services
  • staff trained to respond to crisis situations

Alberta Justice and Solicitor General

Domestic Violence Guideline (2008) and Handbook (2014) by Alberta Justice and Solicitor General”

Downloadable Handbook (157 pages) is for Police and Crown Prosecutors in Alberta. Guideline is a simplified explanation.  Explains legal action in Domestic Violence.

https://justice.alberta.ca/programs_services/criminal_pros/crown_prosecutor/Pages/domestic_violence_guideline.aspx


Alberta Council of Women’s Shelters

The Alberta Council of Women’s Shelters is a province-wide, voluntary organization supporting women’s shelters and their partners through education, research and services for the benefit of abused women and their children.

http://www.acws.ca


Internet Safety Guide

https://www.vpnmentor.com/blog/the-empowering-internet-safety-guide-for-women/


Government of Canada, Department of Justice

This website gives lots of information in short paragraphs.  Lots of different topics are covered with suggestions for follow-up.  Might need other web pages to find specific resources in your community, but you will know what to ask for.

http://www.justice.gc.ca/eng/cj-jp/fv-vf/help-aide.html


Public Health Agency of Canada

Stop Family Violence  is presented by Canada’s Family Violence Initiative, which brings together 15 federal government departments and agencies to prevent and respond to family violence.

http://www.phac-aspc.gc.ca/sfv-avf/index-eng.php

Edmonton Dream Centre

The centre offers a residential program for women coming from crisis situations. The program provides a process to bring healing and change to women in distress.

http://edmontondreamcentre.ca/